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June 30, 2010 – AN INAUGURATION FOR LITTLE BROWN AMERICANS!

2010-06-29T10:14:00.000-07:00

My shoulder is aching; I should be asleep right now, but insomnia keeps me awake and alive. Later is the inaugural ceremony for the newly elected leaders of the country. It is of course a non-working day, but I think it’s not in our company.

WE, little brown Americans have our NEWLY Elected Leaders who are NOT NEW in Government Service. I’ll go straight with my agenda here. CORRUPTION is a CONTAGIOUS DISEASE in our country. This DISEASE goes with the same face and bloodline of our LEADERS. CORRUPTION IS LIKE A CANCER!

WAIT…, cancer patients do everything to be cured. They undergo sophisticated and advanced cure/treatment. They even go to “ALBULARYO”, visits miraculous church and places. THESE ONLY IMPLY THAT EVEN THOUGH THEY HAVE A CANCER, THEY STILL HAVE A FAITH THAT THEY CAN BE CURED!

Now that we are under a NEW ADMINISTRATION (is it really new?). We shouldn’t loose hope that gradually and eventually we can be healed in this disease.

LASTLY, TO THE NEW SET OF OUR SERVANT LEADERS, we hope you don’t have/experienced the following symptoms.

AN ADHERENT OF UNCLE SAM WHO HELPED US MADE OUR HOME-MADE HEROES, THUS CONTROLLING US!
AN ENTHUSIAST FRIEND OF LOPEZES AND MBC.

THANKS… IF SYMPTOMS PERSIST NEVER CONSULT TO YOUR ADVISERS!

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2009-01-10T20:47:00.000-08:00

When You FALL IN LOVE
(Debunking the Myths That Are Driving You Crazy)
By: Bo Sanchez

This article isn't for teenagers only.

Falling in love happens to the young and the not-so-young. (Did you
see
42-year-old Tom Cruise jump up and down Oprah's couch because of
Katie?)

It happens to everyone. Fat, thin, tall, short, intelligent,
uneducated,
holy, not so holy, dark, white, yellow, green... it doesn't really
matter.

All of us fall in love. And we get stuck in myths that drive us
absolutely crazy. My goal is to debunk these myths and convince you not
to
believe in them. Let's begin....... ...

MYTH 1: LOVE WILL CONQUER ALL

Let me qualify.

This is such a tricky myth. Because love ----- as defined by the Bible
------ will conquer all. But love ------ as defined by glazed-eyed
lovers
----- will not.

If you believe in this myth, you might do the following:

You overlook major obstacles in your relationship.

Everyone you know is wondering why you chose that creature from outer
space as your boyfriend. Your bestfriends are telling you to get rid of
him. Your family is telling you to throw him out of a running vehicle.
Aling Rosa of the sari-sari store across the street is telling you to
lace
his drink with poison.

But you won't --------- because you're in love. That's why there are
songs entitled, "you and me against the world" Your bestbuds comment,
'but he's been jobless for the past three years!" And you say, "He's
free-spirited. He feels boxed in when he's in the office. '(in other
words,
he's undisciplined, lazy bum.)

Your officemates say, 'He flirts with other women constantly!' and
you
say, 'No, he's just friendly.' (in other words, he's a pervert)

Your cousins say, 'He's taking drugs, He's got needle marks all over
his
arm. And you say, 'No, he's into cross stitching.'

You overstay in toxic relationships, believing that your love will
change
him

The wedding doesn't transform anyone. Even if three Popes officiate
the
wedding. The person you'll march with into the church will be the same
person you'll march with out of the church. He doesn't change one bit.

In fact, the marriage makes the hidden more obvious.
If he was selfish before he got married, he will be even more selfish
after
the wedding. If he was hypercritical before he got married, he'll even
be
more vile and prolific with his criticisms after wedding.

Here's the truth : You need more than feelings of love to make a
relationship work. You need mature character, total commitment and a
minimum level of compatibility.

Especially compatibility in the area of values and mission in life. I
hear people say, 'We're compatible. Our names begin with the same
letter J.
My name is Julie and his name is Julio. We're both born in July."

Wow. That's so deep, I want to cry.

MYTH 2 : WHEN IT"S TRUE LOVE YOU WILL KNOW THE MOMENT YOU MEET THE
OTHER
PERSON

I'm sure you've had this experience before.
You are in a crowded room. You're surrounded by boring, noisy chatter
when,
suddenly, this gorgeous guy enters the door. Your eyes meet.
Instantly,
time stands still. The universe grinds to a halt. Except for this
attractive man in front of you, everything in your vision becomes a
giant
blur. The hubbub of the crowd becomes a soft muffle and, from out of
nowhere, you here gentle violin music from the background.

One week later, he's your boyfriend. A few weeks later, you
discover
that your boyfriend's a pathological liar, buried in credit card debt,
borrows money from all his girlfriends (you're his eight in six
months).
Your mind says, 'Dump him' Your heart says, 'But it was love at first
sight!' Here are the consequences ...

You become so focused on the magical first moment, you become blind to
the
dark side of the relationship.

Six out of seven days, you're fighting with your boyfriend. But you
can't
give him up because you met each other in such a magical moment. Your
car
keys fell and he picked it up, and then your eyes met, you smelled his
deodorant, and you dropped your keys again ......How can you not be
meant
for each other?

You become a love-at-first- sight junkie that you could miss out on the
'real thing'.

One intelligent woman told me, 'Bo, there's this guy who's courting
me.
He's okay. He's kind, he's responsible, he has a good job.......'

"I could hear a 'but' coming ," I said.
'but there are no sparks!" she bit her lip.
"No violin music playing in the background huh?none. When I see him,
the
background music I hear is lululalu-lalulalula lei..."

Listen. You don't need a magical first moment to meet our potential
husband. The important things are mature character, financial
responsibility, ability for commitment, compatible mission and
values..."

I actually met this girl again on her wedding, and before she marched
down the aisle, she whispered to me, "Do you hear the violin music, Bo?
It's loud and clear."

It doesn't have to be love at first sight.
In fact, marriages with the least adjustments are those between friends
who've known each other for years before they realize that they're good
marriage material.

What is love at first sight? Many times, it's lust at first sight. Or
infatuation at first sight. Don't give it too much weight.

Here's the truth: it takes a moment to experience infatuation but
true
love takes a lifetime.

MYTH 3 : IF IT IS TRUE LOVE YOU WILL FEEL THIS WAY FOR EACH OTHER
FOREVER

No, you won't. Here are the consequences for believing this myth :

You panic when the feelings wane, and wonder whether the marriage is
over
and whether you really loved one another in the first place.

Imagine the night of your honeymoon. Your new bride is sleeping. The
cotton curtains are gently swaying in the cool breeze. You gaze at her
lovely face. You study her soft cheeks. Her long eyelashes. Her
beautiful
nose, her parted red lips. And all of a sudden, she snores.
"Ngggggggooork"

How do you react? Because it's your honeymoon, you say, 'How cute.'
Six
months down the road, the same scene transpires. Your wife is sleeping.
And
the same cotton curtains are gently swaying in the cool breeze. And you
hear her snore. "Ngggggoork. "

What do you say?

"Ssssssheeeesh, Honey! You sound like a boat!'

What has happened? The feelings have gone. Let me say this:That's
normal.
It happens to everyone. But it doesn't mean your love is gone so don't
panic! You can make a decision to love the snoring boat.

You start blaming your partner for the loss of love
This is nutty.
But many people do it: when we don't feel in love, we think it's the
fault
of the other person. And so we fight him.
Again, we fall out of love because we're human beings.
It's nobody's fault.
The moment you fall out of love, the real work begins.

Let me explain.

This is the most important point I'm going to make. (I got this from
Scott Peck in his bestseller book, The Road Less traveled)

Falling in love isn't love

Here's why. When you fall in love.....
a. No decision is required. Falling in love just happens.
b. No effort is required. Falling in love is like.... Well,
falling.
c. No hard work is required. Falling in love is being bitten by
the
love bug.

On the other hand, true love requires all three : Decision, effort and
lots
of hard work. In the Bible, love is a command. You make it happen.

Sure true love can only happen after you've fallen out of love.
When you begin choosing to love, even if you don't feel like doing it
----
that's true love. And that's the foundation of a lasting marriage.

MYTH 4: YOUR PARTNER WILL FULFILL YOU COMPLETELY

Again because falling in love satisfied you completely ----- you want
the
same satisfaction to last. No it won't.

Consequence? You might fail to recognize a good relationship because
your
partner isn't fulfilling the needs you should be fulfilling yourself.

Here's the truth: the right partner will fulfill many of your needs
but
not all of them . There are just some things your husband can't give
you:
you're self-worth. Your spirituality. Your inner happiness. These are
things you have to work on your own.

I've met lots of people who think they're dissatisfied with their
marriage. In reality, they're dissatisfied with themselves. I've met
lots
of people who think they're bored with their marriages. And they
complain
to the high heavens how boring their husband or wife is ---- when in
truth,
they're really bored with life.

Meet your own needs. Find your happiness in God. Find your niche,
your
calling, your destiny. And then share your joy with your spouse.

MYTH 5 : IF IT'S TRUE LOVE YOU WON"T BE ATTRACTED TO ANYONE ELSE

If you believe in this myth, you panic when you get attracted to
someone
else, questioning the authenticity of your love for your spouse.

One man told me, 'Bo, I love my wife. Or I thought I did. But then I
met
this woman at work. She has nice make-up. She smells nice. She wears a
pencil-cut skirt. When I go home, my wife is wearing a drab rag. Her
hair
is undone. She smells of vinegar. Gosh I am attracted to this girl at
work."

Being attracted to someone is normal ----- even if you have a happy
marriage. But being attracted doesn't mean falling into adultery.

Every time you think of the other woman, discipline your heart and
say,
'Home, boy, Home!' and escort your heart back to your wife. Because if
you
feed your attraction with fantasies and constantly think about the
other
woman, it grows. But if you starve your attraction, it dies a natural
death.

A Must To Read Love Story

2008-12-15T01:21:00.000-08:00

Dear Friend,

This a great love story which proves how powerful love is yet people still try to control what they really feel... It’s ok to be afraid to love but don’t be afraid ok? Pass it to the friend you love, pass it TODAY, not next day or next week, tomorrow may be too late... Let them know that you love them…

As I sat there on our English class, I stared at the girl next to me; I used to call that girl 'bestfriend'. I stare at her long silky hair as it bounces on her seat and wishes she was mine...but she didn’t notice me like that.... after the class. She walked after me... she borrowed notes she had missed d day b4, I handled them to her... and she said 'THANKS and give me a kiss on the CHEEKS...' I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want us just to be friends… but I am afraid… I didn’t know why?

Sophomore years...., my phone rang... on the other hand... it was her.... she was mumbling and crying because her love that left her.... she asked me to come into their house and I did... in their house I sat on the sofa next to her... I stared at her dazzling eyes and wished she was mine… but she didn’t notice me like that and I knew it. After two bags of popcorns and one Drew Barrymore’s movie, I decided to go home.... before I leave... she come up to me and said... "THANKS for the care and comfort... and gave me a kiss on d cheeks..." I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want us just to be friends… but I am afraid… I didn’t know why?

Junior years... it was our PROM night the next day.... at the locker she come up to me and said... " Ei, I have no date tom.... could you be my date?", since I have no date too and we have an promise during sophomore years that if anyone of us have no date then we’ll be the partner of each other… During the prom night, as I dance with her, I stare at her soft, red lips… and wished she was mine… but she didn’t notice me like that and I knew it. After the prom, I accompany her home… before she enter the gate she hugged and kissed me on the cheeks, and said “I have a great night” and enter their house. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want us just to be friends… but I am afraid… I didn’t know why?

It was graduation day… I stare at the girl, who used to be my ‘bestfriend’, I watch her as her perfect body float in the stage to receive her diploma. How I wish she was mine but she didn’t notice me like that, and I knew it. After the graduation, she ran up to me… hugged me and gave me a kiss on the cheeks as she said, “Thanks for being my real bestfriend” and she was gone. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want us just to be friends… but I am afraid… I didn’t know why?

Years passed, months and days come like an autumn leaves… that time I sat on the pew of the church. That girl, who used to my ‘bestfriend’, is now getting married – to another man. I watch her as she exchange vow to her groom. Before she leave the church, she run up to me and hugged me tightly, “I’m glad you came” and gave me a kiss on the cheeks and she moved into her new life.

Now, I’m standing on the coffin of that girl, who used to be my ‘bestfriend’. I watched her coffin being buried as the priest read the diaries of that girl written during her high school life. This is what is written.

“I stare at the boy who used to be my bestfriend. How I wish he was mine, but he didn’t notice me like that and I knew it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don’t want us just to be friends… but I am afraid… I didn’t know why? How I wish he would tell me.”

I wish I did it… I told to myself and I cried…

john_rove@yahoo.com